TY - BOOK AU - Morris,Virginia TI - How to care for aging parents: a complete guide SN - 1563054353 (pbk.) AV - WT 120 M875h 1996 PY - 1996/// CY - New York PB - Workman Pub. Co. KW - Aging parents KW - Family relationships KW - Handbooks, manuals, etc KW - Care N1 - Includes index; Contents FOREWORD INTRODUCTION CHAPTER 1: GET READY, GET SET -Talking to Your Parents about Tough Issues -Gathering Essential Documents -Organizing Your Own Life -Caring from Afar CHAPTER 2: YOUR PARENT AND YOU -Adapting to New Roles -Knowing When to Intervene -Resolving Old Struggles -Managing Day-to-Day CHAPTER 3: CARING FOR THE CAREGIVER -Setting Limits -Emotional Minefields; Guilt, Anger and Depression -Support Groups -Gaining a Healthy Mindset: Friends, Laughter and Tranquility CHAPTER 4: DOCTOR DO'S AND DON'TS -Rx for the Elderly -A Geriatric Assessment -Finding a Good Doctor -Being an Informed Advocate CHAPTER 5: THE BODY IMPERFECT: Part 1 -Vision and Hearing -Insomnia -Overmedication -Alcohol -Temperature Regulation -Dehydration -TLC for Skin, Legs and Feet CHAPTER 6: THE BODY IMPERFECT: Part 2 -Osteoporosis and Arthritis -Incontinence -Digestive Disorders -Depression -Delirium -Anxiety CHAPTER 7: ON THE FIFTH FLOOR -Entering the Hospital -Questions about Tests, Treatments and Surgery -Dealing with Hospital Staff -Your Role as Advocate -Preparing for Discharge CHAPTER 8: TIPS FOR DAILY LIVING -Steps to a Safer Home -Bathing and Dressing -Eating Right -Setting Up the Bedroom -A Question of Driving -The Importance of Exercise -Quality of Life CHAPTER 9: GETTING HELP: Community and Home-Care Services -What's available and How To Find It -Companions -Meal Programs -Transportation -Senior Centers -Adult Day Care -Home Health Aides and Nurses -Geriatric Care Managers -Hiring and Overseeing Workers -Respite Care CHAPTER 10: HOME AWAY FROM HOME -When it's time to move -Should Dad Move in? -Shared Housing -Senior Apartments -Assisted-Living Homes -Continuing Care Retirement Communities CHAPTER 11: A GOOD NURSING HOME -Making the Decision -What to Look For in a Nursing Home -Getting In -A Plan Of Care -Moving Day and Beyond -Your Role as Visitor and Advocate -Getting Adjusted CHAPTER 12: THE INNER CIRCLE -Sharing the Care with Siblings -A Family Meeting -Spouses -The Sandwich Generations: Aging Parents and Young Children -Balancing Career and Caregiving CHAPTER 13: PAYING THE WAY -Talking About Money -What Medicare and Medicaid Really Cover -Medigap and Long-Term Care Insurance -Financial Planning -Homes as Collateral -Tax Tips -Hiring Financial and Legal Counsel CHAPTER 14: THE LEGAL ISSUES -Wills -Power of Attorney -Advanced Directives -Guardianship -Estate Planning -Probate -Dividing the Estate CHAPTER 15: THE AGING BRAIN -What is Normal? -Dementia -Getting Tested -Alzheimer's Disease: What to Expect -Mini-Strokes -Treating Dementia -Planning for the Future CHAPTER 16: LIVING WITH DEMENTIA -Helping Yourself: A Clear Perspective and a Little Humor -Helping Your Parent: Simplicity, Routines and Diversions -Tips for Eating, Dressing, Communicating and More -Coping with Special Problems CHAPTER 17: IN THE END -Broaching the Subject of Death -Caring for Your Parent in the Hospital -Choosing Hospice Care -Medical Treatment: When Enough Is Enough -Making Advance Directives Stick -Saying Good-bye -The Face of Death CHAPTER 18: CODA GOOD GRIEF -The Necessity of Mourning -The Surviving Parent -Growing From Grief UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0710/94019321-d.html UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0710/94019321-t.html ER -